29 June 2012
03 December 2009
* LETTING GO *
To "let go" does not mean to stop caring; it means I can't do it for someone else.
To "let go" is not to cut myself off; it's the realization I can't control another.
To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.
To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about. To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To "let go" is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.
To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept. To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.
To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.
To "let go" is not to cut myself off; it's the realization I can't control another.
To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.
To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about. To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To "let go" is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.
To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept. To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.
To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.
How Can You...?
How can you unlove someone
does anybody really know
when he asks if I love him
I need to tell him no.
I have no feelings for him
left inside my heart
I just wanna get this over with
and begin a brand new start.
Time and time again
he left me all alone
and that's why today my love
for him is all gone.
Just cuz I don't msg you
doesn't mean I don't love you he said
that left nothing but doubts
forming in my head.
I thought you said everyday
the words I love you
to me thats always been a sign
that a love is true.
There'd be days go by
that we never talked to each other
I was lonely feeling forgotten
so I fell in love with another.
This new love in my life
gives me what before I never had
he tells me he loves & misses me
he's never making me sad.
I'm gonna give him all my love
and lots of attention too
cause he was there
when you were making me blue.
You'll find another to love
just wait in time you'll see
but I'm with the man now
who gave his love & attention to me.
I wish you happiness
I honestly do
I hope you find someone to love you
like I used to do.
Well I guess I answered
my own question
you can unlove someone
when they cease their affection.
does anybody really know
when he asks if I love him
I need to tell him no.
I have no feelings for him
left inside my heart
I just wanna get this over with
and begin a brand new start.
Time and time again
he left me all alone
and that's why today my love
for him is all gone.
Just cuz I don't msg you
doesn't mean I don't love you he said
that left nothing but doubts
forming in my head.
I thought you said everyday
the words I love you
to me thats always been a sign
that a love is true.
There'd be days go by
that we never talked to each other
I was lonely feeling forgotten
so I fell in love with another.
This new love in my life
gives me what before I never had
he tells me he loves & misses me
he's never making me sad.
I'm gonna give him all my love
and lots of attention too
cause he was there
when you were making me blue.
You'll find another to love
just wait in time you'll see
but I'm with the man now
who gave his love & attention to me.
I wish you happiness
I honestly do
I hope you find someone to love you
like I used to do.
Well I guess I answered
my own question
you can unlove someone
when they cease their affection.
2009 © copyright
by
Babiigurl70
12 October 2009
An October Affirmation
The French writer Montaigne said, "The most uncouth of our afflictions is to despise our being." Sometimes we let it slip by us to not allow our high standards to defeat us! For what spurs you to great heights can also paralyze you if you're not careful.
07 August 2008
For A Reason, Season Or A Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow and learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done before. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it; it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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